November 13, 2009
why do i all of a sudden feel full of rage?
gopackgo51 asked:
my next door neighbors son was killed today on road constuction…he is 26…just got married…expecting a baby…and almost like a brother to me…ne ways some dipshit didnt follow the pilot car and went the other way around the paving machine and crashed into it causing it to rock forward and it plowed my neighbor and killed him….i never get pissed but i am PISSED at the driver…who was in a hurry to get going around the construction…i never get pissed but i am raging with anger, sadness and sympathy…but why am i the most mad at the driver?
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my next door neighbors son was killed today on road constuction…he is 26…just got married…expecting a baby…and almost like a brother to me…ne ways some dipshit didnt follow the pilot car and went the other way around the paving machine and crashed into it causing it to rock forward and it plowed my neighbor and killed him….i never get pissed but i am PISSED at the driver…who was in a hurry to get going around the construction…i never get pissed but i am raging with anger, sadness and sympathy…but why am i the most mad at the driver?
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3:17 pm
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Because he killed him…
8:32 am
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you probobly think that it is the drivers fault because he hit the rock
10:49 am
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It's probably how you deal with grief… also it's unfair that a young man such as himself faced that when he's expecting a baby when there are several horrible people in the world still alive that don't deserve it… I am sorry what happened… my thoughts are with you and his family. x
4:32 pm
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because if it wasnt for the driver the guy would still be here , and it just not fair, he had his whole life ahead of him and it was snatched away, its no2 on the 5 stages of grief
1.denail
2.anger
3, depression
4. bargaining
5, acceptance
i hope over time things get better
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2:50 pm
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I'm so sorry to hear about your neighbor….it is indeed a tragedy.
Your feelings are normal, death is hard to deal with and it causes all kinds of emotions from extreme sadness to extreme anger.
I don't know if you have a faith, but if you do, I hope that you can find solace and comfort in the scriptures. John 5:28-29 is particularly comforting and offers hope for the future.
Best to you.
9:47 pm
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Maybe because it was a needless death. If the driver had gone the way they were supposed to you friend wouldn't be dead now. His wife wouldn't be a widow now and his child would still have their father. It's only natural to feel rage over this senseless waste of a young live and to feel you have been robbed of a good friend that's why you feel sadness at his loss. Unfortunately you can't change the past and bring him back, so do what you can to help his widow through this terrible time in her life. I hope they throw the book at him the stupid S.O. B.